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Rehrednu · 26-01-2012, 19:04

I've never used one, nor ever wanted to. That's not to say I've not in the past sought to curtail a session but that's been due to lack of chemistry rather than the activities themselves.

As far as possible, I really do want to hand over the power to my Domme so once any no go areas have been negotiated, I'm entirely in her hands. Others do things differently I know, but this is at the heart of my interest in being a sub. When a safeword exists, it takes something away from the servitude.

This is rarely a problem once you get to know a Mistress. Certainly there's no question with the Mistress I currently see that it's up to her what we start and when she stops. It can be tricky when seeing a new Domme, and for this reason I tend to gravitate towards those Mistresses that actually require a fair amount of upfront discussion before the first session.

26-01-2012, 19:04	#5
Rehrednu Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Midlands Posts: 318 Reputation: 60	I've never used one, nor ever wanted to. That's not to say I've not in the past sought to curtail a session but that's been due to lack of chemistry rather than the activities themselves. As far as possible, I really do want to hand over the power to my Domme so once any no go areas have been negotiated, I'm entirely in her hands. Others do things differently I know, but this is at the heart of my interest in being a sub. When a safeword exists, it takes something away from the servitude. This is rarely a problem once you get to know a Mistress. Certainly there's no question with the Mistress I currently see that it's up to her what we start and when she stops. It can be tricky when seeing a new Domme, and for this reason I tend to gravitate towards those Mistresses that actually require a fair amount of upfront discussion before the first session.