30-04-2015, 12:02 | #11 | |
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On reviews and comments generally: unlike some others I think these can be useful. But again, it's a matter of using ones own judgement - are the positive comments sycophantic, or the negative ones just because a particular sub didn't get on with a particular mistress? To give an example of a few years ago - one mistress had a fairly open dungeon where it was possible to meet other subs if one wanted to. Some people might be attracted to that, others would not at all. To point this out is providing factual information (though perhaps the website should have been clearer). There must be other examples relating to session style, etc. where the comments are informative rather than positive or negative. (I have never met the mistress in question and have no opinion of her). |
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30-04-2015, 12:57 | #12 |
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We have to remember that this website/forum is owned by a Mistress...maybe that has something to do with the mods' decision.
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30-04-2015, 14:21 | #13 |
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Seems like a lot of folk have not yet discovered the comparethemistress.con website.
Plenty of groovy sliders for parameterisation and you get a free Meerkat toy to boot! Simples...
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30-04-2015, 15:43 | #14 | |
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And try as I may I can`t find the "compare the mistress website..
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And, occasionally, we hear both sides of the story I have been modding for far too long on UKM. I have seen some horrible comments about dommes which have turned out to be untrue when challenged. Equally I have seen some unnecessary remarks about subs which have not been right. But, one of the basics is that mistresses are out there - when named and shamed it is apparent who they are. Subs are a name on a forum. So we may well be more protective about PDs cos we know that adverse remarks can affect their business. I totally get what you say subparman, especially about long standing members. But we then become subjective -I can think of one or two longstanding members who seemed totally reasonable for a while and then just went for it with a particular lady. As to negative reviews -seriously why not. We will ask the lady for her take on it and put the two sides of the argument out there. If she does not respond within a timescale then we will post the review. Then it is in the eye of the beholder. For me, if I had a bad session I would say that and say that I will respond privately by PM if more detail is required. Sadly, it is my experience that there are quite a lot of vindictive people out there. Rant over too 😀 Nothing personal, subparman. I hope you don't take it that way but I am pretty bruised from the years of modding here - both from dommes (non consensually 😀😀 and subs Basically we are seldom right 😀 |
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30-04-2015, 17:16 | #16 |
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And, oops, I am horribly off topic
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Mistress information sought and reviews
I have split a number of post from the Miss Cameo information sought thread http://www.uk-mistresses.com/vBullet...ead.php?t=5295 as there is a debate about the general princples of the comments and views expressed by UKM members, how the Mods have dealt with these comments.
Also the UKM review process. We (Mods) welcome constructive discussion on this matter. Please keep to general principles and not specific Mistresses, locations or sessions this thread is about UKM Thanks Last edited by reefknot; 30-04-2015 at 17:59. |
30-04-2015, 17:58 | #18 |
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Thanks reefy
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I understand your difficult position Lisal and the other mods. I still think you have got it wrong on this occasion but i have made my point. None of us can be right all of the time nor can we please all of the people all of the time. Certainly nothing taken personally, I am not normally so opinionated, more of a live and let live type but I felt strongly on this subject.
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