UKM - We Mistress's can be wrong ! - Page 2 - UK

JimBeam · 27-10-2012, 20:39

If I applied to see a lady and was refused I would take 'no' for an answer and would be very very unlikely to contact her again.

Wouldn't want to be a nuisance

Wouldn't want to be regarded as any kind of stalker

Wouldn't want to take a second rejection onboard - my ego is fragile enough as it is.

Lady Anna · 27-10-2012, 20:51

I've said no many times and given the reason why too. Occasionally they will come back, acknowledge my response, and then make a better effort at applying or clarifying something. Sometimes it's enough for me to change my mind.

It could be that their second application is clearer, or more human, or it could be that simply by trying again they have proved to e that they really do want to see me, or they have proved they are serious and not just tyre kickers.

Mistress Adore · 27-10-2012, 20:53

As well as my slut, i also have a guy who contacted me and asked for something else i didn't offer.
He was lovely, and i explained to him why i did not offer what he was seeking.
We exchanged a couple of emails and that was that.
Over a year later he then joined my site forum, posted a few things and we got chatting once again.
I told him i would give what he was looking for a go and we could have a trial to see if we were suited to each other.
Once again it seems to be working very well, 7 months or so down the line.

So i guess what i am saying is, we (or at least i) can be wrong.
Often i will say no to someone because in my opinion, its not cheap to come and see a Mistress, so if i am not able to give them (or think i can not give them) what they need i would rather not have them come to see me, take their money and leave them disappointed.

I want to be on as much of a high at the end of my sessions as my people are, there's no point otherwise.

MistressRouge · 28-10-2012, 13:29

This is My take on it too, I don't think I have ever gone back on My word. Not that it is a pride or power thing, I usually go with My hunch and stick with it.

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Originally Posted by JimBeam

If I applied to see a lady and was refused I would take 'no' for an answer and would be very very unlikely to contact her again.

Wouldn't want to be a nuisance

Wouldn't want to be regarded as any kind of stalker

Wouldn't want to take a second rejection onboard - my ego is fragile enough as it is.

27-10-2012, 20:51	#2
Lady Anna Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,827 Reputation: 105	I've said no many times and given the reason why too. Occasionally they will come back, acknowledge my response, and then make a better effort at applying or clarifying something. Sometimes it's enough for me to change my mind. It could be that their second application is clearer, or more human, or it could be that simply by trying again they have proved to e that they really do want to see me, or they have proved they are serious and not just tyre kickers. __________________ "Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.” - Unknown The Anna List Medical Fetish Clinic - Extreme Breath Play, Realistic Medical Play Medical Mistress & Breathplay Specialist

27-10-2012, 20:39	#1
JimBeam Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Lincs Posts: 108 Reputation: 15	If I applied to see a lady and was refused I would take 'no' for an answer and would be very very unlikely to contact her again. Wouldn't want to be a nuisance Wouldn't want to be regarded as any kind of stalker Wouldn't want to take a second rejection onboard - my ego is fragile enough as it is.

27-10-2012, 20:53	#3
Mistress Adore Moderator Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,730 Reputation: 104	As well as my slut, i also have a guy who contacted me and asked for something else i didn't offer. He was lovely, and i explained to him why i did not offer what he was seeking. We exchanged a couple of emails and that was that. Over a year later he then joined my site forum, posted a few things and we got chatting once again. I told him i would give what he was looking for a go and we could have a trial to see if we were suited to each other. Once again it seems to be working very well, 7 months or so down the line. So i guess what i am saying is, we (or at least i) can be wrong. Often i will say no to someone because in my opinion, its not cheap to come and see a Mistress, so if i am not able to give them (or think i can not give them) what they need i would rather not have them come to see me, take their money and leave them disappointed. I want to be on as much of a high at the end of my sessions as my people are, there's no point otherwise.