Added Session Hard Sports

[Mistress Violet]

You boys and your imaginations! I wouldn't be making anybody eat anything!
I don't watch what I eat either - I like bacon and I eat lots of it. Haha.
In terms of size the price would be the same regardless.
It's usually performed on a toilet box although I'm looking
Into other options for those more visually stimulated I don't think I could do it stood over someone though, requires a lot if concentration.
And everyone's kink is different, you'd be surprised how many requests I've had regarding hardsports. Quite possibly equally as many or more than subs who like pain...

MV

[Mistress Esme]

Well then what is the point if there is no consumption? Harsports without consumption is pointless. You're better off offering just scat, however you state you can't due to mess. Hardsports is still messy so why offer at all? That's my personal opinion as someone who specialises in hardsports/scat. Personally you sound like someone just jumping on the band wagon due to subs asking rather than you actually loving this form of degradation such as myself.

[geordiesouth]

Ah that would be the BDSM bandwagon then.

As I find the image of hard sports and scat totally disgusting. I feel fully qualified to talk on the subject

Firstly I think whatever Mistress Violets reasons are for advertising her new service involving shit. Are her reasons.
Wether it be something she offers just cos her subs have mentioned it....... Or wether she loves doing it.

Truth be told. If someone was taking a dump in my mouth or on any other part of my anatomy. It just wouldn't enter my head to think "I hope she is enjoying this"

[platelicker]

Originally Posted by Mistress Esme

Well then what is the point if there is no consumption? Harsports without consumption is pointless. You're better off offering just scat, however you state you can't due to mess. Hardsports is still messy so why offer at all? That's my personal opinion as someone who specialises in hardsports/scat. Personally you sound like someone just jumping on the band wagon due to subs asking rather than you actually loving this form of degradation such as myself.

If we ignore the last three words of the above post, if it had been a post from one of our male members, he would have been castigated and told that the post is an example of the reason why so many Mistresses have left the forum.

[degradelove]

Originally Posted by Mistress Esme

Well then what is the point if there is no consumption? Harsports without consumption is pointless. You're better off offering just scat, however you state you can't due to mess. Hardsports is still messy so why offer at all? That's my personal opinion as someone who specialises in hardsports/scat. Personally you sound like someone just jumping on the band wagon due to subs asking rather than you actually loving this form of degradation such as myself.

What is the point if there is consumption?
I presume if we're considering hardsports/scat in domination, we're not looking at something that has undergone rigorous scientific investigation to arrive at some irrefutable and singular definition of the kind of stimulus each person will derive from participating in something like this.
No, we're not, what we're reading is your subjective opinion on the subject which I find facile and simplistic. I personally couldn't bring myself to eat or consume the stuff, although the thought of having it on my body, including my face, gives me a frisson of excitement - words like texture and tactile and sploshing and feel and taboo come into my head - perhaps it's all part of some unresolved issues in my psyche related to Freud's psychosexual stages.
Also why accuse Violet of jumping on the bandwagon? You love the practice, but is loving all aspects of domination compulsory and essential, or is it not enough sometimes to be dispassionate about providing a service, especially if it maximizes your earning potential and also provides your slave with an experience he or she desires?

[Mistress Violet]

I would like to point out Mistress Esme that like any other form of domination there is a massive spectrum and variation on practice. All I'm saying is that I wouldn't make someone consume it unless it was requested. Not everyone has a one track mind and wishes to consume. That's like saying that someone who requests anal play has to have fisting else what's the point? Clearly not the case. People who are interested and want to be eased into a situation often prefer this method before they pursue their ultimate fantasy of degradation. I don't think it's your place to say that I don't enjoy what I offer as My session interests.

[platelicker]

Originally Posted by Mistress Violet

I would like to point out Mistress Esme that like any other form of domination there is a massive spectrum and variation on practice. All I'm saying is that I wouldn't make someone consume it unless it was requested. Not everyone has a one track mind and wishes to consume. That's like saying that someone who requests anal play has to have fisting else what's the point? Clearly not the case. People who are interested and want to be eased into a situation often prefer this method before they pursue their ultimate fantasy of degradation. I don't think it's your place to say that I don't enjoy what I offer as My session interests.

A reasoned and sensible response Mistress Violet.

[subparman]

A very reasoned and sensible response from Mistress Violet IMO.

I think the original comment from Mistress Esme was just a bit of shit stirring if you ask me. Not for the first time, I also thought Platelickers comment below was perfectly correct.

"If we ignore the last three words of the above post, if it had been a post from one of our male members, he would have been castigated and told that the post is an example of the reason why so many Mistresses have left the forum."

[Mistress Violet]

Not to be an arse licker (that's for you to do) but what a lovely bunch of subs you are. Very nice to have people see reason and not jump to conclusions without full knowledge! Thanks guys

MV

[subparman]

Originally Posted by Mistress Violet

Not to be an arse licker (that's for you to do)

MV

And what a pleasure it would be!!!!!

I must get out more (hopefully in Manchester).