12-01-2024, 09:17 | #1 |
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Vanilla submissive
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Before Xmas I was out with a couple of “vanilla” female friends. My partner is quite bossy (in a nice way) and we were talking about her. Then one friend said to me that I obviously liked being dominated in a relationship - and the other one agreed immediately It threw me a bit. What signs was I sending out? I asked herself this yesterday during session. She said even if she hadn’t known my predilections through our relationship she’d have said the same. I asked why - her response was that I was soft and preferred women’s company to men’s among other things Do you wonder if your submissiveness is apparent in “vanilla world”?
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That could imply that certain non-submissive roles, like CEO's, airline pilots, competitive sports persons etc, would not be able to reveal a sensitive side. Some submissives in session seek out power exchange as respite from their normal day to day lives...
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As you suggest the power exchange happens but that could be more a one off - scratch the itch - so not as innate as some?
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I have over time met with some people of both sexes who outwardly in public appear to be dominant / assertive etc and others that appear to be submissive / compliant etc yet in a more personal encounters are different
I feel that environment some folk are in does alter their dominance / submissive persona
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