UKM - Dungeon or Domestic - UK

Lisal · 03-03-2024, 17:31

Setting for a session

Can't say I've ever been a fan of the traditional dungeon. A bit theatrical for me.

Love sessioning in a plain domestic setting with a few kink things here and there. IMHO gives the domme the chance to really use her imagination

How about you!

reefknot · 03-03-2024, 18:27

My Mistress refers to her play space as a "studio" she creates the are of BDSM there

darkslut · 03-03-2024, 18:57

Nothing like a dark, well-stocked, atmospheric dungeon that locks out the outside world. Wherever you look, there are instruments and symbols of pain and submission and Her rule. Gets the juices and the imagination flowing! Love it.

ex nihilo · 03-03-2024, 20:42

Domestic for me.

As long as Mistress has all the necessary BDSM accoutrements with a bias towards MS, to satisfy our play requirements. So, a domestic playroom works for me. And whatever pain I receive, it has the comfort of something familiar.

Don’t need the atmospherics of something dark and cold like a dungeon and these spaces tend to be shared.

In a domestic situation, it’s nice to have a cup of tea and some cake afterwards, while receiving the *aftercare and session debrief.

* and boy do I need it...

Bjorn Brimble · 04-03-2024, 10:03

Dungeons in this country tend to be a bit meh. From personal experience that is

My first session was in the 90s. The quality of dungeons hasn’t really advanced since then.

Maybe it is to do with the law. Owners are hardly gonna throw money at these places if there’s a chance the plod could close them down.

Can’t remember who it was but someone from this parish was raving about the standard of BDSM establishments in Germany not long ago.

No comparison he reckoned

Seems to me like the high end dungeon experience in UK is rare.

I’m not talking about equipment, just the style of building. Often draughty old premises, rented spaces, industrial areas etc.

Not for me

geordiesouth · 04-03-2024, 20:25

Much more interested in the person rather than the play space and a dungeon is definitely not my idea of a play space.
But then again BDSM or even domination (I’m in charge) is not something I particularly look for.

Slutty Rimmer · 04-03-2024, 20:49

For my liking the contrast between tasteful and warm welcoming homely domestic surroundings* and the outrageous activities being endured or performed just adds an essential element otherwise missing in a ‘dungeon’ setting. I am lucky in that she is not a professional and so this is how it naturally is, and a large part of how we were able to initially relax with each other. There are no masks kept in a jar by the door. No space or time pressure, just simply at home in the Universe.

Home, hotel, holiday cottage. To be surrounded by easy peace and beauty is wonderful whilst we set ourselves to divine sin !

Even the occasional curious cat poking its head around the door adds an element of shared chuckle…”It looks all the world like she’s shoving a big…into his…whilst he is….Good Lordy, She is !!! Right, I’m off outside for the afternoon to annoy those birds at the bottom of the garden. F*cking weirdos….them not the birds, obvs.”

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

* Especially when toilets and showers are involved.

ex nihilo · 05-03-2024, 10:12

Quote:

Originally Posted by Slutty Rimmer

I am lucky in that she is not a professional and so this is how it naturally is, and a large part of how we were able to initially relax with each other. There are no masks kept in a jar by the door. No space or time pressure, just simply at home in the Universe.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

Isn't our site described as a guide to professional domination ?

While non-professional relationships might be of interest to some, they are not really relevant to our site's key mission statement...

Slutty Rimmer · 05-03-2024, 10:17

Quote:

Originally Posted by ex nihilo

Isn't our site described as a guide to professional domination ?

While non-professional relationships might be of interest to some, they are not really relevant to our site's key mission statement...

You are on a mission ??? Best of luck with that one pal.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

Bjorn Brimble · 05-03-2024, 14:04

Quote:

Originally Posted by geordiesouth

Much more interested in the person rather than the play space and a dungeon is definitely not my idea of a play space.
But then again BDSM or even domination (I’m in charge) is not something I particularly look for.

Why see a Domme if you’re not looking for BDSM or domination?

Apart from tea and biscuits I’m struggling to think of any other reasons to visit

03-03-2024, 17:31	#1
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,289 Reputation: 973	Dungeon or Domestic Setting for a session Can't say I've ever been a fan of the traditional dungeon. A bit theatrical for me. Love sessioning in a plain domestic setting with a few kink things here and there. IMHO gives the domme the chance to really use her imagination How about you! __________________ Proud to be a woke

03-03-2024, 18:27	#2
reefknot Member Join Date: Feb 2022 Posts: 394 Reputation: -16	My Mistress refers to her play space as a "studio" she creates the are of BDSM there __________________ Nipple clamps are an essential accessory - acording to my Mistress To be anally retentive is the ability to hold a butt plug in

03-03-2024, 20:42	#4
ex nihilo Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 6,480 Reputation: 31	Domestic... Domestic for me. As long as Mistress has all the necessary BDSM accoutrements with a bias towards MS, to satisfy our play requirements. So, a domestic playroom works for me. And whatever pain I receive, it has the comfort of something familiar. Don’t need the atmospherics of something dark and cold like a dungeon and these spaces tend to be shared. In a domestic situation, it’s nice to have a cup of tea and some cake afterwards, while receiving the aftercare and session debrief. and boy do I need it... __________________ “We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful what we pretend to be.”

04-03-2024, 10:03	#5
Bjorn Brimble Banned Join Date: Apr 2019 Posts: 2,809 Reputation: -14	Dungeons in this country tend to be a bit meh. From personal experience that is My first session was in the 90s. The quality of dungeons hasn’t really advanced since then. Maybe it is to do with the law. Owners are hardly gonna throw money at these places if there’s a chance the plod could close them down. Can’t remember who it was but someone from this parish was raving about the standard of BDSM establishments in Germany not long ago. No comparison he reckoned Seems to me like the high end dungeon experience in UK is rare. I’m not talking about equipment, just the style of building. Often draughty old premises, rented spaces, industrial areas etc. Not for me Last edited by Bjorn Brimble; 04-03-2024 at 10:11.

04-03-2024, 20:25	#6
geordiesouth Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 7,244 Reputation: 108	Much more interested in the person rather than the play space and a dungeon is definitely not my idea of a play space. But then again BDSM or even domination (I’m in charge) is not something I particularly look for. __________________ A girls gotta have somewhere to park her bike.

03-03-2024, 18:57	#3
darkslut Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 79 Reputation: 53	Nothing like a dark, well-stocked, atmospheric dungeon that locks out the outside world. Wherever you look, there are instruments and symbols of pain and submission and Her rule. Gets the juices and the imagination flowing! Love it.

04-03-2024, 20:49	#7
Slutty Rimmer Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: In t'North of t'Country Posts: 5,468 Reputation: 160	At home in the Universe. For my liking the contrast between tasteful and warm welcoming homely domestic surroundings* and the outrageous activities being endured or performed just adds an essential element otherwise missing in a ‘dungeon’ setting. I am lucky in that she is not a professional and so this is how it naturally is, and a large part of how we were able to initially relax with each other. There are no masks kept in a jar by the door. No space or time pressure, just simply at home in the Universe. Home, hotel, holiday cottage. To be surrounded by easy peace and beauty is wonderful whilst we set ourselves to divine sin ! Even the occasional curious cat poking its head around the door adds an element of shared chuckle…”It looks all the world like she’s shoving a big…into his…whilst he is….Good Lordy, She is !!! Right, I’m off outside for the afternoon to annoy those birds at the bottom of the garden. Fcking weirdos….them not the birds, obvs.” Kind Regards, Rimmer. Especially when toilets and showers are involved. __________________ Light, Life, Love. 🌈 Trans-women are not women…they are men with a mental disorder. Protect women. “You [Rimmer] are truly a master amongst masters...” Ex Nihilo, UK-M. “Freedom only to speak inoffensivley is not worth having.” https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/...e-judgment.pdf “If a man can be a woman, there's no such thing as a woman.” “LGBTQIA2S+ ? Everything after the B is either fake, fashion, or illness.” Last edited by Slutty Rimmer; 04-03-2024 at 22:48.