UKM - I'm done guys. - UK

Mistress Adore · 12-06-2022, 15:18

Below is a copy of what I have left in the admin area of the site.

***I have slept on it and decided I am done with this site.

There is zero support from Sam, neither doing anything to improve the site nor allowing you to take it over to do so yourselves.

This has meant this site has deteriorated from a once vibrant, engaging, supportive community to mostly a couple of people using it for their own self-serving ego-fest.

It started when they were allowed to push the Mistresses away from this site, some did not want mistresses on this site and many years ago now, they left, and since then you guys have done your best to hold onto some of the good it once had.

For me, it is time to decide where my energy and time are best spent.

Every time I come on here it is the same old crap. The same bitterness playing out. The same egos are at play.

These are not young men here, these are men beyond old enough to know better. I suspect more than one has a fake profile and in these last few months, I just do not have the energy, or desire to give these stupid posts my attention.

I can not see this getting any better as long as Sam doesn't care enough to do anything about it, or enough to let you guys.

I am sorry to let you two down, you deserve so much more than the neglect Sam has given you and the disrespect some of the few remaining members show you.***

To those of you who are genuine and have supported the site, Lisal and Reefy thank you.

To those of you who have played games, who have to bait each other, acted superior to others and contributed to the negativity and demise on this site, I wonder if it has been worth it, please do not post on this post blaming others when you know you have been part of the problem.

Good luck to you all.

jo nep · 12-06-2022, 16:17

I am sorry that you have elected to remove yourself from the site and I think I understand your reasons. Thanks for all your input in the past and I agree that it desperately disappointing the attitude that has led to so many Mistresses doing the same.
All the best wherever you land.

Slutty Rimmer · 12-06-2022, 16:18

More than a touch of Solomon’s wisdom in this I think.

Best wishes to Mistress Adore.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

ex nihilo · 13-06-2022, 07:37

Even if you are no longer modding, it would be great to receive your sensible and grounded posts from time to time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F44nrK0MxEQ

Thank you and best wishes...

Bjorn Brimble · 13-06-2022, 12:00

Best Wishes and Good Luck to Mistress Adore

So if Sam doesn't care about the forum/offers no support/shows no interest etc, what's to stop the mods doing their own thing with it?

Run it their own way

Sam can hardly complain about it if she's given up on the place, which is what it sounds like. Someone has to step up and take over the wheel

Personally I think a complete reset is needed. Has been for some time. Start afresh with clear rules, direction and expectations. It would do wonders for the place and you'd have the Mistresses posting again in no time.

I assume we all want Mistresses to post again?

Lisal · 13-06-2022, 12:25

Honestly

The software is dated and there is a lot we can't change/get at. I am fairly surprised that it hasn't fallen over yet. It needs a revamp.

As the owner Sam will still have responsibility whatever we do so we do have to bear that in mind

As I said elsewhere there has been a VONC and complaints to Sam (or so we've been told) about us

In these circumstances, personally, I have little enthusiasm for a total reset - even if we could do it.

mikeyports · 16-06-2022, 14:59

Mistress Adore

I just want to thank you for some help and advice you gave me a few years ago it was so needed at the time.

take care

12-06-2022, 15:18	#1
Mistress Adore Moderator Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,730 Reputation: 104	I'm done guys. Below is a copy of what I have left in the admin area of the site. *I have slept on it and decided I am done with this site. There is zero support from Sam, neither doing anything to improve the site nor allowing you to take it over to do so yourselves. This has meant this site has deteriorated from a once vibrant, engaging, supportive community to mostly a couple of people using it for their own self-serving ego-fest. It started when they were allowed to push the Mistresses away from this site, some did not want mistresses on this site and many years ago now, they left, and since then you guys have done your best to hold onto some of the good it once had. For me, it is time to decide where my energy and time are best spent. Every time I come on here it is the same old crap. The same bitterness playing out. The same egos are at play. These are not young men here, these are men beyond old enough to know better. I suspect more than one has a fake profile and in these last few months, I just do not have the energy, or desire to give these stupid posts my attention. I can not see this getting any better as long as Sam doesn't care enough to do anything about it, or enough to let you guys. I am sorry to let you two down, you deserve so much more than the neglect Sam has given you and the disrespect some of the few remaining members show you.* To those of you who are genuine and have supported the site, Lisal and Reefy thank you. To those of you who have played games, who have to bait each other, acted superior to others and contributed to the negativity and demise on this site, I wonder if it has been worth it, please do not post on this post blaming others when you know you have been part of the problem. Good luck to you all. Last edited by Mistress Adore; 26-06-2022 at 15:21.

12-06-2022, 16:17	#2
jo nep Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1,312 Reputation: 145	Sorry for your departure I am sorry that you have elected to remove yourself from the site and I think I understand your reasons. Thanks for all your input in the past and I agree that it desperately disappointing the attitude that has led to so many Mistresses doing the same. All the best wherever you land. __________________ My PD and friend AND Diary of a Lancashire slave

12-06-2022, 16:18	#3
Slutty Rimmer Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: In t'North of t'Country Posts: 5,520 Reputation: 160	Judgement Day. More than a touch of Solomon’s wisdom in this I think. Best wishes to Mistress Adore. Kind Regards, Rimmer. __________________ Light, Life, Love. 🌈 Trans-women are not women…they are men with a mental disorder. Protect women. “You [Rimmer] are truly a master amongst masters...” Ex Nihilo, UK-M. “Freedom only to speak inoffensivley is not worth having.” https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/...e-judgment.pdf “If a man can be a woman, there's no such thing as a woman.” “LGBTQIA2S+ ? Everything after the B is either fake, fashion, or illness.” Last edited by Slutty Rimmer; 12-06-2022 at 16:44.

13-06-2022, 07:37	#4
ex nihilo Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 6,525 Reputation: 31	Even if you are no longer modding, it would be great to receive your sensible and grounded posts from time to time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F44nrK0MxEQ Thank you and best wishes... __________________ “We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful what we pretend to be.”

13-06-2022, 12:25	#6
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,320 Reputation: 973	Honestly The software is dated and there is a lot we can't change/get at. I am fairly surprised that it hasn't fallen over yet. It needs a revamp. As the owner Sam will still have responsibility whatever we do so we do have to bear that in mind As I said elsewhere there has been a VONC and complaints to Sam (or so we've been told) about us In these circumstances, personally, I have little enthusiasm for a total reset - even if we could do it. __________________ Proud to be a woke Last edited by Lisal; 13-06-2022 at 12:32.

13-06-2022, 12:00	#5
Bjorn Brimble Banned Join Date: Apr 2019 Posts: 2,809 Reputation: -14	Best Wishes and Good Luck to Mistress Adore So if Sam doesn't care about the forum/offers no support/shows no interest etc, what's to stop the mods doing their own thing with it? Run it their own way Sam can hardly complain about it if she's given up on the place, which is what it sounds like. Someone has to step up and take over the wheel Personally I think a complete reset is needed. Has been for some time. Start afresh with clear rules, direction and expectations. It would do wonders for the place and you'd have the Mistresses posting again in no time. I assume we all want Mistresses to post again?

16-06-2022, 14:59	#7
mikeyports Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: portsmouth Posts: 944 Reputation: 59	Mistress Adore I just want to thank you for some help and advice you gave me a few years ago it was so needed at the time. take care __________________ don't judge people i accept them There is not a person that breathes that does not have peculiaritys as long as it does not hurt anyone its OK by me.(cant stop the music) [live life and have a beautiful ending https://twitter.com/Elainasslut