Reviews & Mistress Information Sought

Originally Posted by folly

In view of Lady Sam's post in the Alice Malice thread, doesn't it become even more important to distinguish between a review (which should be posted in the 'Reviews' forum) and a response to 'Mistress Information Sought', where subjective, review-type comments (rather than factual info.) might perhaps be given privately, or posters encouraged to post a review?

Certainly I would not post a review if the thread were not subsequently locked (except to potential comments from the Domme in question, of course). My experience is precisely that, after all.

Hi folly I have posed a question in the Mods forum about how we can manage this section

[folly]

Originally Posted by reefknot

Hi folly I have posed a question in the Mods forum about how we can manage this section

And did you conclude anything? I posted very reasonably in other MIS threads, including a post in response to Mistress Hourglass who misread/ misrepresented/ misunderstood the issue raised. But you lock that thread and don't allow me a right to reply.

This is a mess. You're welcome to it.

I kooked the thread because it directly related to Mistress Hourglass who has made a couple of responses in the thread, while you have a valid point about "reviews" in the information sort I believe in fairness to Mistress Hourglass that particular thread should be closed

Originally Posted by reefknot

Hi folly I have posed a question in the Mods forum about how we can manage this section

Originally Posted by folly

And did you conclude anything? I posted very reasonably in other MIS threads, including a post in response to Mistress Hourglass who misread/ misrepresented/ misunderstood the issue raised. But you lock that thread and don't allow me a right to reply.

This is a mess. You're welcome to it.

Folly is absolutely correct and Mistress Hourglass has completely misunderstood the reasoning behind her first post on the Mistress Hourglass thread in MIS.

You have not allowed folly to explain the recurring problem which I am quite sure she would have done calmly and clearly. Mistress Hourglass is entitled to an explanation as she has simply not been around long enough or often enough to know and understand. This is quite obvious from her second post. Do I take it that you will now be providing that explanation?

Ok against my better judgment its unlocked,

[MistressHourglass]

As reefknot is a moderator, and someone I have always experienced as fair, I have just sent him a message on this topic.

I have decided that I do not want to be reviewed anymore here on UK-Mistresses and have asked him to put me on the list of mistresses who do not want reviews done.

Though I have faired reasonably well in the past with feedback left here about me, it is now just TOO much. What I mean by this is I have gone into the mistress information section and just can't believe what I am reading. It is nothing more than hoards of 'unregulated' reviews. I know that it must be hard for the moderators to keep a lid on it all, but there is for me a principle involved here.

As it is, I don't come on-line that much anymore and hell knows what could be written about me 'behind my back'.

I am not a preforming clown. I am a human being. I just don't want the stress of worrying what is going to be said about me on here. I want to be able to just put that to one side and enjoy myself and my time with the visitors to my chamber without the pressure of...... this man found UK-Mistresses, visits UK-Mistresses, if I put one food out of place I have had it. For me that is a form of topping from the bottom. And a tinge of a threat..... "I saw your details on UK-Mistresses and maybe I will do a review later".

And lastly........ so many of these over-the-top glowing, positive comments left in the information on mistresses section are very suspect. Am I the only one who is suspicious? A flood of men who all of a sudden come forward to say how wonderful someone is, who never normally post. Come on guys, it's not difficult to register loads of fictitious subs/slaves to do a mistresses bidding, all you need is to obtain some email addresses that can be acquired in 10 minutes flat! It sort of make it unfair for the mistress who don't engage in those dodgy practices.

If I recall correctly, I had something like 11/12 responses in regards to myself, when I was still relatively new to pro-domming.... and seemed to fair reasonably well, all things considered.

But, don't you think it is a bit suspect when responses about a particular individual is just all 100% mind bogglingly wonderful, I do.

No-one is perfect and amazing and wonderful with just everyone they come into contact with. It is not humanly possible!