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“Lifestyle “ vs PD
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Which do you prefer and why Plus any other related discussion points about the subject
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The other side of the coin.
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UK Mistresses can be every bit as practiced if not more so than ‘Professional’ Mistresses. You can commodify and buy pleasure as just a momentary thrill but love and friendship are beyond the coin. It hurts more and you can take more when you know she knows you love her more for it. Kind Regards, Rimmer.
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To be honest on reflection the thread title is a bit too adversarial. It really shouldn't be either or It's surely about the two people involved. If it works for them (money or no money) then that is all that matters. Those of us who attended some of the munches all those years back will still shudder about the vulnerability of some of those there (one person remains in my memory). Equally there were some "doms" who were predators OTOH there are plenty of good lifestyle relationships. Yours certainly sounds like one Perhaps our own experiences shape our views in this. More likely probably
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Predator praying.
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As far as money is concerned though I don’t fully understand what it is doing if the relationship is personal and loving, unless it is some form of allowance for lifestyle and costs. Which would make sense. Definitely want to hear more about these ‘predator’ doms, although that is probably for another thread. I would be surprised if there isn’t a ‘Mistress Predator’ out there offering fin-dom or something similar ! Kind Regards, Rimmer.
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I started seeing herself many years ago. One of many at the time. Over time we got to know each other - became friends and started doing a few social things out of session. And we got closer She branched out on her own - took a few of us with her. Started sessioning more regularly - and we got on better. Other stuff which I won't relate but she's seen me through some of my worst times in life And we continue. But she has a business to run as well. So we session and there is a "tribute". It's sort of incidental She's my closest friend and the one I trust more than other. We just grew together - both personally and BDSM wise That's just my experience but hope it gives some insight
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Lifestyle for me is a dream, maybe one I want to keep as a dream
I have formed good friendships with proDommes over the years, some of the friendships remain long after the Mistress has retired. The main thing is to respect the professional aspect and know the boundaries between it and the personal friendship
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On the Origin of Friendships.
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From what you say it sounds as if the money is just a vestigial payment that neither of you want to address for fear of upsetting the evolved relationship, which then makes it as you say ‘incidental’. In such a situation I doubt your friend would be considered a PD. Mind you, after all that time I’m not sure if a monthly 5s 1d from the Lisal piggy bank is going to be of much use to her now* ! As an aside, I wonder how many of us went out intentionally seeking the relationship we now have or just stumbled across it along the way ? I suspect most evolved and grew as yours has done. That might be a better distinction between PD and this so-called ‘lifestyle’ i.e. the latter is free to develop and expand with fewer constraints of time and money and space and ‘services’. Good thread this. Kind Regards, Rimmer. * I seem to recall the first truly professional session I had was £65/hr. She put her rates up over the next 5 or so years to about £90/hr (IIRC) and then semi-retired but kept her regulars on at their unchanging rates for the next 7ish years. She was more than just a bit gorgeous (as Geordie can testify). Looking back now it occurs that I seem to have had an eye for attractive busty blondes. Nothing intended, or at least I think not.
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