UKM - Vanilla submissive - UK

Lisal · 12-01-2024, 09:17

Best title I could come up with!

Before Xmas I was out with a couple of “vanilla” female friends. My partner is quite bossy (in a nice way) and we were talking about her. Then one friend said to me that I obviously liked being dominated in a relationship - and the other one agreed immediately

It threw me a bit. What signs was I sending out?

I asked herself this yesterday during session. She said even if she hadn’t known my predilections through our relationship she’d have said the same. I asked why - her response was that I was soft and preferred women’s company to men’s among other things

Do you wonder if your submissiveness is apparent in “vanilla world”?

12-01-2024, 09:17	#1
Lisal Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 11,320 Reputation: 973	Vanilla submissive Best title I could come up with! Before Xmas I was out with a couple of “vanilla” female friends. My partner is quite bossy (in a nice way) and we were talking about her. Then one friend said to me that I obviously liked being dominated in a relationship - and the other one agreed immediately It threw me a bit. What signs was I sending out? I asked herself this yesterday during session. She said even if she hadn’t known my predilections through our relationship she’d have said the same. I asked why - her response was that I was soft and preferred women’s company to men’s among other things Do you wonder if your submissiveness is apparent in “vanilla world”? __________________ Proud to be a woke