UKM - Mistress information sought and reviews - UK

subparman · 30-04-2015, 21:23

I understand your difficult position Lisal and the other mods. I still think you have got it wrong on this occasion but i have made my point. None of us can be right all of the time nor can we please all of the people all of the time. Certainly nothing taken personally, I am not normally so opinionated, more of a live and let live type but I felt strongly on this subject.

Best regards.

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Originally Posted by Lisal

We mod. Sometimes we get it wrong; quite often we get it right. And, yes, we are very aware of the owners views and guidelines. So we work within those

And, occasionally, we hear both sides of the story

I have been modding for far too long on UKM. I have seen some horrible comments about dommes which have turned out to be untrue when challenged. Equally I have seen some unnecessary remarks about subs which have not been right. But, one of the basics is that mistresses are out there - when named and shamed it is apparent who they are. Subs are a name on a forum. So we may well be more protective about PDs cos we know that adverse remarks can affect their business.

I totally get what you say subparman, especially about long standing members. But we then become subjective -I can think of one or two longstanding members who seemed totally reasonable for a while and then just went for it with a particular lady.

As to negative reviews -seriously why not. We will ask the lady for her take on it and put the two sides of the argument out there. If she does not respond within a timescale then we will post the review. Then it is in the eye of the beholder.

For me, if I had a bad session I would say that and say that I will respond privately by PM if more detail is required. Sadly, it is my experience that there are quite a lot of vindictive people out there.

Rant over too 😀

Nothing personal, subparman. I hope you don't take it that way but I am pretty bruised from the years of modding here - both from dommes (non consensually 😀&#128512

and subs

Basically we are seldom right

😀