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Old 21-09-2022, 09:03   #31
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I remember Folly's contributions to this forum. I always found her posts interesting and knowledgable on BDSM subjects. I wouldn't say her posts were bullying. It was often Mistresses who received her criticism on their methods etc. Their responses were often very revealing on their PD professionalism.

She was clever but at least didn't come up with Latin phrases to flatter her ego.

Only fault was she was a Spurs season ticket holder. Just kidding...
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I remember Folly's contributions to this forum. I always found her posts interesting and knowledgable on BDSM subjects. I wouldn't say her posts were bullying. It was often Mistresses who received her criticism on their methods etc. Their responses were often very revealing on their PD professionalism.

She was clever but at least didn't come up with Latin phrases to flatter her ego.

Only fault was she was a Spurs season ticket holder. Just kidding...
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Original post 11.42.

Two edits by 11.50.

Keep going, dude. Who knows, you might eventually finesse the drivel ?

Or maybe get a life ? ...
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Old 21-09-2022, 16:22   #37
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I know the owner, she has always been kind and supportive to me and she has her own life with all the issues that many of us have. If reefy and I have needed her in terms of the site being down etc she has been there

We are where we are. How we got here doesn't matter. Hopefully, it can be resolved so we can do something. Until then I'd suggest that we leave it alone. There really isn't much we can do right now in changes to the site.
The OP paints a different picture Lisal. She says there is zero support from Sam, neither doing anything to improve the site nor allowing you to take it over to do so yourselves.

Let's hope she has a change of heart soon. I'm not being funny but I'd say it's highly unlikely that any Mistresses are going to start posting again until she lets you guys make the necessary changes.
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The OP paints a different picture Lisal. She says there is zero support from Sam, neither doing anything to improve the site nor allowing you to take it over to do so yourselves.

Let's hope she has a change of heart soon. I'm not being funny but I'd say it's highly unlikely that any Mistresses are going to start posting again until she lets you guys make the necessary changes.

And we all have our different takes

I understand what MA (who is a friend and a really good mod) was saying and I know what my own feelings are, too. The two things are not, necessarily, contradictory

I know Mistresses won't post here right now. Repeating things over and over again while we are in the current situation is not going to, magically, make them happen

I was going to close this thread but on reflection that would have been wrong. But, please, can we hold back on stating the bleeding obvious. Reefy and I do know the situation.
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I was going to close this thread but on reflection that would have been wrong. But, please, can we hold back on stating the bleeding obvious. Reefy and I do know the situation.
Fair play for keeping this thread open mate. It's a difficult discussion to have but a necessary one if we are to recover.

Why is it stating the bleeding obvious to say it's unlikely Mistreses are going to start posting again soon?

An awful lot of Mistresses are active on Twitter. They talk about BDSM stuff. And we're the only discussion forum for Mistresses in the whole of the UK set up for this purpose.

Make them feel welcome again on here and they'll come back. Guaranteed. Where there's a will there's a way surely?

Or am I missing something? Do the mods want to keep it guys only on here?
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Make them feel welcome again on here and they'll come back. Guaranteed. Where there's a will there's a way surely?

Or am I missing something? Do the mods want to keep it guys only on here?
I don’t think you can guarantee anything of the sort, unless you are the self appointed spokesman for Mistresses in the UK.

All are welcome here now so their absence seems to undermine your misplaced confidence.

I doubt many Mistresses will ever return in plain sight given that a free open discussion forum will not offer the echo chamber sanctuary which Tw*tter provides. It would not necessarily lift their professional image to be here, and risks the opposite.

In fact, looking back over the past 20 years the involvement of professional dominatrices has been one of permanent decline throughout. Initially, prior to social media, there was a novelty in their attendance here but Tw*tter etc soon gave an equal (and better) exposure, and without the quarrelsome contradictions or contrary debate*.

What’s in it for them to be here which they don’t already get better elsewhere ?

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* There was of course ‘that other’ site which briefly existed in parallel but which was somewhat sycophantic and fawning and served as an omen of the echo chambers being built elsewhere. It imploded with in-fighting between the owners, as recounted to me in person by one of the founders. Seemed a bit half-baked and ill thought through at the beginning, and there was in any case not much mileage in imposed agreement.

Understandably, the ladies involved did not then want to lose face by returning to the old Lady.

Cannot identify it by name as I believe we are still not supposed to mention it. Don’t know why, I would have thought most of the women involved have long moved on or retired. Must be a 30 year official secret type thing.
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