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Old 02-08-2011, 07:44   #1
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I often wonder if it matters to a Mistress whether her client is young, fit, old, skinny or fat...in terms of the enjoyment she will derive from a session.

Obviously any responsible lady would take appropriate precautions, but if Roy Chubby Brown appeared on your doorstep would you be disappointed, just a little?

I ask this because I am in my 50`s and although not overweight I do get concerned that any younger Mistress may just be a bit put off, so I am more reluctant to session than I used to be......maybe I`m just too sensitive.....
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Old 02-08-2011, 13:22   #2
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I think compatibility will come into it. A plump elderly gent thinning on top yet possessing a big one (I’m talking wallet) is likely to be more compatible than a ripped handsome young man who is a bit skint
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Old 02-08-2011, 14:16   #3
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I know talking to my domme that it's all about compatibility (both in and out of session). She's a very handsome lady who attracts a lot of male attention (she is happily married) but the most important things to her are personality and humour

I do know how you feel barstool - I think we aren't that far apart in this (apart from my spare tyre!!!) but The Boss has certainly changed the way I feel about myself. For that (and for other things) I am eternally grateful to her
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Obviously any responsible lady would take appropriate precautions, but if Roy Chubby Brown appeared on your doorstep would you be disappointed, just a little?
I'd be delighted!

Look, we're not going to marry you and have your babies. As long as you are compatible and clean we don't really care what you look like.

The only time when weight is an issue is when a huge client expects us to have clothing or kit that fits his very ample bulk. Not every Mistress can be expected to have everything in M, L, XL, and XXL.
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Old 03-08-2011, 09:23   #5
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I'd be delighted!

Look, we're not going to marry you and have your babies. As long as you are compatible and clean we don't really care what you look like.

The only time when weight is an issue is when a huge client expects us to have clothing or kit that fits his very ample bulk. Not every Mistress can be expected to have everything in M, L, XL, and XXL.
Presumably Chubby would have to remove his flying helmet?????
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Presumably Chubby would have to remove his flying helmet?????
Did you not mean?...Presumably Chubby would have to remove his flying fist from his helmet?
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Did you not mean?...Presumably Chubby would have to remove his flying fist from his helmet?
That's a mental image that may live with me for some time!!!
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Old 03-08-2011, 18:37   #8
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I did start to worry about getting older and and putting on weight, I had this notion that the sub had to look like "beckham or Williams", It's good news when a mistress says........... I don't care what you look like or how old you are ect ect .
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Old 03-08-2011, 19:27   #9
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reefy has lost some of his chubbyness in the last 8 weeks 1 1/2 stone

My rubber fits again :P
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Old 03-08-2011, 22:50   #10
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My rubber fits again :P
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I'll get my hat and raincoat...
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