New title

[geordiesouth]

I think it’s surely time the name change should be announced.

I’m going for,

UK- NOWT TO DO WITH MISTRESSES WHATSOEVER.COM

[Bjorn Brimble]

Originally Posted by geordiesouth

I think it’s surely time the name change should be announced.

I’m going for,

UK- NOWT TO DO WITH MISTRESSES WHATSOEVER.COM

Mischievous post but agree with G up to a point. A new name would actually make a lot of sense.

There’s just no leadership on here, difficult to know what the owners are trying to achieve but it sure as hell doesn’t involve trying to get the Mistresses back

A general chat board definitely makes more sense

But aimed at who? And why exclude so many demographics by allowing posts and attitudes that are so hostile and offensive to so many minorities. That’s what I don’t get.

Music, sport, current affairs, a little bit of BDSM

Could work but without real direction it’s all a bit of a mess as far as I can see

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by Bjorn Brimble

Could work but without real direction it’s all a bit of a mess as far as I can see

…or ‘as far as I have created’ might be a more appropriate statement from you given your activist intent to either take or destroy.

The Mods have had our suggestions about where the toxicity wells up from and what to do about it. You know it as well as we all do, you create it, and the Mods are not without agency. Trust them.

You keep forgetting this is not our forum, and posting here is a privilege not a right. Only the owner and the Mods need concern themselves with the structure of the site.

We are not important, we just post, that’s all we need do. Please proceed.

P.S. Geordie: Yes you are right…with the current situation. There is a simple quick fix though that does not involve a name change. Beyond our pay-grade though.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

[ex nihilo]

Originally Posted by Bjorn Brimble

But aimed at who? And why exclude so many demographics by allowing posts and attitudes that are so hostile and offensive to so many minorities. That’s what I don’t get.

Well yes.

We could certainly do without the Islamophobia, the anti-trans, the anti-Lewis Hamilton, the Angela Rayner letting her knickers down as a teenager and the anti woke diatribes in general. By definition, it should be an all welcome, inclusive and liberal forum which adheres to the ethos, guidelines and rules set out.

Originally Posted by Slutty Rimmer

P.S. Geordie: Yes you are right…with the current situation. There is a simple quick fix though that does not involve a name change. Beyond our pay-grade though.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

Good to see that you admit to be part of the problem and are considering cease and desist. Just think, there would be no need for 'The Loz Thread' aka' the bastion against bullshit, gobbledygook, tortuous logic, over elaborate language and poncification.'

Perhaps an intriguing new name like ?

'Tell 'em Loz didn't send ya" ...

[Bjorn Brimble]

Maybe “Professional Domination in the UK” is too vague a term to mean much these days

25-30 years ago when UK-M started professional domination was more of a thing. Mistresses worked in dungeons, very nice lady with a whips worked in brothels.

These days ‘dommes’ cross over into adultwork, Twitter, the world of escorting etc

Then you’ve got the world of cuckolding, swinging, sugar daddies, onlyfans, findom and the like

Feels like a lot of surviving members on here seldom visit traditional Mistresses

So maybe a more general adult-themed discussion board would work. Still keep the BDSM angle though

But it’s all academic. Women still wouldn’t post with all the toxicity on here.

That needs fixing urgently before any meaningful improvements can take place

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by Bjorn Brimble

Maybe “Professional Domination in the UK” is too vague a term to mean much these days

25-30 years ago when UK-M started professional domination was more of a thing. Mistresses worked in dungeons, very nice lady with a whips worked in brothels.

These days ‘dommes’ cross over into adultwork, Twitter, the world of escorting etc

Then you’ve got the world of cuckolding, swinging, sugar daddies, onlyfans, findom and the like

Feels like a lot of surviving members on here seldom visit traditional Mistresses

So maybe a more general adult-themed discussion board would work. Still keep the BDSM angle though

But it’s all academic. Women still wouldn’t post with all the toxicity on here.

That needs fixing urgently before any meaningful improvements can take place

Remind us how many times you have been banned under your multiple identities over the years. At least three identities and at least two bans, possibly more under other sock puppet identities ?

You are clearly a controlling obsessive and manipulative sociopath, so don’t pretend to care.

We see you, we have done for a long time.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.

[geordiesouth]

Once again we hear this rubbish about UKM having to change before Mistresses/women, will return in their hoards to post.

It’s never happening. Times change and so has the world of pro domming.

Old farts like us don’t change though. We cling on cos it’s home…….. well it used to be.

[Bjorn Brimble]

Originally Posted by ex nihilo

By definition, it should be an all welcome, inclusive and liberal forum which adheres to the ethos, guidelines and rules set out.

Yes good point made by Ex.

Successful boards have all the above. Clear ethos and expectations and consistent modding so that everyone knows where they stand.

And you’ve gotta be inclusive these days. Especially on a board like this.

[Bjorn Brimble]

It doesn’t hurt to focus on the positives every now and then.

Here are our strengths as I see them;

Good banter section (the Oub)

Footy chat in particular. Better now than it’s ever been on here

Jukey. Unlimited selections (free of charge)

Great humour. You can always count on Ex to bring the arfs when it goes a bit quiet

Resilience. We’re still here

Owners who, in spite of everything, have stuck at it and kept us afloat when at times all hope has seemed lost

[Slutty Rimmer]

Originally Posted by Bjorn Brimble

Yes good point made by Ex.

Successful boards have all the above. Clear ethos and expectations and consistent modding so that everyone knows where they stand.

And you’ve gotta be inclusive these days. Especially on a board like this.

We have good modding which is more involved and better than at any previous time of recent years, and of course we are ‘inclusive’ by default of not being exclusive.

So nothing to be concerned about there, you can carry on destroying.

Kind Regards,
Rimmer.