UKM - Can't decide! - UK

Giveitago · 21-10-2013, 12:51

After a couple of disastrous sessions with a long term mistress I had decided to give it a rest. Only thing is the urge has returned and there isn't much I can do about it. Feels a bit like Dexter, if anyone's been watching it.
Anyway I have decided to give sessioning another go and have narrowed my search down to two possible mistresses:
Mistress Penny Black - Bradford
Mistress Violator - Sheffield.

Now I know we all get fed up with requests asking who they should visit, I'm not after that, I would however be interested to hear from anyone who has visited either of these ladies to let me know how it went.
I'll then try and make my own mind up.

Cheers in advance!
Giveitago

JohnFred · 21-10-2013, 14:30

Looking to recapture the "buzz"?

Head for Sheffield and be "Violated"

I will pm you.

Lady Anna · 21-10-2013, 15:08

One of my guys sees Violator and thinks she is fab.

Just William · 21-10-2013, 22:51

Hi Giveitago,

Just to make you aware - if you're not already aware - but Mistress Violator is the most gorgeous, drop down down dead post op, TS you're ever likely to set your eyes on, (my opinion obviously).

Not that being a TS MIstress matters one iota to me (more like a bonus!),but it may matter to you - as knowing this may do things with your head ie the one that sits on your shoulders

Good luck and bon voyage fellow voyager - yes, i know all too well, you may give up the BDSM for a while but BDSM will never give up on you!

Giveitago · 23-10-2013, 13:50

Cheers Just William,
Yes I was aware and it is a bit of a mind bender, to be honest I think I would have been more inclined to visit her if she was a pre op, just one of my many desires.
I take it you have seen Mistress Violator then? Would you care to share your experience?
Cheers
Giveitago

Just William · 23-10-2013, 23:24

Hi, sorry to disappoint you but i'm a southern based sub and Sheffield 'steel' is just a mite tooo far way ie past Watford, Milton Keynes etc etc

So i have not had zee pleasure y zee pain of visiting this gorgeous, post op TS Lady with a captital 'L'.

Yes, i understand you comment that in your darkest of desires, you'd sort of prefer it if the Lady in question was 'pre-op' (i have some desires that way too, tell the truth),but (butt) for me the ultimate test is attraction be that of a sensual/sexual nature or of a BDSM orientated nature - this Mistress surely fits both 'natures' - at least out of the few i've been honoured enough to find in the UK?? please informme if i'm wrong???

PS oh dear, the penalties one pays for living ie in slave terms, 'existing;, in the balmy south!!

Good, sincere, luck whatever you decide and what route you take..difficult i only know SO well. Regards

rubber slut · 29-10-2013, 14:27

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just William

Hi Giveitago,

Just to make you aware - if you're not already aware - but Mistress Violator is the most gorgeous, drop down down dead post op, TS you're ever likely to set your eyes on, (my opinion obviously).

Not that being a TS MIstress matters one iota to me (more like a bonus!),but it may matter to you - as knowing this may do things with your head ie the one that sits on your shoulders

Good luck and bon voyage fellow voyager - yes, i know all too well, you may give up the BDSM for a while but BDSM will never give up on you!

To be clear, her website makes it explicit she is a (very) post op TV.

Not all post op TS dommes are explicit about that.

Giveitago · 29-10-2013, 20:06

I don't think anyone was suggesting that it wasn't clear, we're they?
Anyhow, I made the wrong decision!!! Which is always such a disappointment, I ventured to Bradford and unfortunately didn't find what I was looking for, didn't find much to be honest, apart from feeling a bit ripped off. Any way i will submit a review in the near future, that is if we are allowed to post reviews that are not all praise!

Giveitago

29-10-2013, 20:56

Quote:

Originally Posted by Giveitago

. Any way i will submit a review in the near future, that is if we are allowed to post reviews that are not all praise!

Yes you can, please be objective and factual. With adverse reviews we may contact the Mistress concerned to allow a right of reply before the review is released

doesthatcanehurt · 31-10-2013, 00:34

I had a very good session with Mistress Violator in the spring/summer, also had an interesting chat afterwards.

I've probably been around the block a bit too much now though as dont tend to feel the urge quite so much nowadays and find myself correctly guessing what is going to happen next alot of the time I do session even if for some people it would be unexpected!

21-10-2013, 12:51	#1
Giveitago Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 42 Reputation: 10	Can't decide! After a couple of disastrous sessions with a long term mistress I had decided to give it a rest. Only thing is the urge has returned and there isn't much I can do about it. Feels a bit like Dexter, if anyone's been watching it. Anyway I have decided to give sessioning another go and have narrowed my search down to two possible mistresses: Mistress Penny Black - Bradford Mistress Violator - Sheffield. Now I know we all get fed up with requests asking who they should visit, I'm not after that, I would however be interested to hear from anyone who has visited either of these ladies to let me know how it went. I'll then try and make my own mind up. Cheers in advance! Giveitago

21-10-2013, 14:30	#2
JohnFred Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Posts: 24 Reputation: 10	Can't decide Looking to recapture the "buzz"? Head for Sheffield and be "Violated" I will pm you.

21-10-2013, 15:08	#3
Lady Anna Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,827 Reputation: 105	One of my guys sees Violator and thinks she is fab. __________________ "Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.” - Unknown The Anna List Medical Fetish Clinic - Extreme Breath Play, Realistic Medical Play Medical Mistress & Breathplay Specialist

21-10-2013, 22:51	#4
Just William Member Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: London area Posts: 65 Reputation: 10	Giveitago and can't decide Hi Giveitago, Just to make you aware - if you're not already aware - but Mistress Violator is the most gorgeous, drop down down dead post op, TS you're ever likely to set your eyes on, (my opinion obviously). Not that being a TS MIstress matters one iota to me (more like a bonus!),but it may matter to you - as knowing this may do things with your head ie the one that sits on your shoulders Good luck and bon voyage fellow voyager - yes, i know all too well, you may give up the BDSM for a while but BDSM will never give up on you!

23-10-2013, 13:50	#5
Giveitago Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 42 Reputation: 10	Cheers Just William, Yes I was aware and it is a bit of a mind bender, to be honest I think I would have been more inclined to visit her if she was a pre op, just one of my many desires. I take it you have seen Mistress Violator then? Would you care to share your experience? Cheers Giveitago

23-10-2013, 23:24	#6
Just William Member Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: London area Posts: 65 Reputation: 10	Hi, sorry to disappoint you but i'm a southern based sub and Sheffield 'steel' is just a mite tooo far way ie past Watford, Milton Keynes etc etc So i have not had zee pleasure y zee pain of visiting this gorgeous, post op TS Lady with a captital 'L'. Yes, i understand you comment that in your darkest of desires, you'd sort of prefer it if the Lady in question was 'pre-op' (i have some desires that way too, tell the truth),but (butt) for me the ultimate test is attraction be that of a sensual/sexual nature or of a BDSM orientated nature - this Mistress surely fits both 'natures' - at least out of the few i've been honoured enough to find in the UK?? please informme if i'm wrong??? PS oh dear, the penalties one pays for living ie in slave terms, 'existing;, in the balmy south!! Good, sincere, luck whatever you decide and what route you take..difficult i only know SO well. Regards

29-10-2013, 20:06	#8
Giveitago Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 42 Reputation: 10	I don't think anyone was suggesting that it wasn't clear, we're they? Anyhow, I made the wrong decision!!! Which is always such a disappointment, I ventured to Bradford and unfortunately didn't find what I was looking for, didn't find much to be honest, apart from feeling a bit ripped off. Any way i will submit a review in the near future, that is if we are allowed to post reviews that are not all praise! Giveitago

31-10-2013, 00:34	#10
doesthatcanehurt Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 75 Reputation: 10	I had a very good session with Mistress Violator in the spring/summer, also had an interesting chat afterwards. I've probably been around the block a bit too much now though as dont tend to feel the urge quite so much nowadays and find myself correctly guessing what is going to happen next alot of the time I do session even if for some people it would be unexpected!